Catch setEnabled to ensure classloader is properly unloaded (#10020)

patches/server/Paper-Plugins.patch

@@ -3994,8 +3994,11 @@ index 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000..00000000000000000000000000000000
 +            plugin.getLogger().info("Disabling %s".formatted(pluginName));
 +
 +            this.server.getPluginManager().callEvent(new PluginDisableEvent(plugin));
-+
-+            javaPlugin.setEnabled(false);
++            try {
++                javaPlugin.setEnabled(false);
++            } catch (Throwable ex) {
++                this.server.getLogger().log(Level.SEVERE, "Error occurred while disabling " + pluginName, ex);
++            }
 +
 +            ClassLoader classLoader = plugin.getClass().getClassLoader();
 +            if (classLoader instanceof ConfiguredPluginClassLoader configuredPluginClassLoader) {